since young, many has commented that my elder sis and i are identical twins... which wasn't a big deal... but as i grew up, i found it annoying sometimes... "we look different~~ we don't look alike at all~~".. that's what i wanted to shout back...

guess the issue is that i don't want to be like my sis... so we took piano lessons, dance lessons and were in the band... that doesn't mean i'm like her~~~ people don't say to her that she's like me... coz she's older... so it must be the younger sista looking up to the older one... ish~~ what nonsense~~ to me... i wanted to just be myself and not compared to anyone... but comparison is one thing that humans like to do... i do it sometimes.. ok, most of the time..

my point is... comparison made me lose sense of self... and i sometimes choose to discard few qualities that i think my sista had.. most importantly, i lost my confidence..

Don't worry about that whole twin thing, you'll both eventually grow out of it and ppl will forget. :) My sister and I used to have the same thing happen, but it went away once we were in our teens.
» little-b on 2006-09-19 01:58:50

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